Dating a girl coming out of a long relationship
They also need to find out what really matters to them in a relationship.They will know that they don't want the same problems as before, but only by dating others will they find out what else they want/don't want.I think I dated maybe eight men in a six-month period.Two of them (so we’re talking 25 percent) enjoyed my company, enjoyed the sex, and then all of a sudden decided to tell me that they “couldn’t” date me because it was morally wrong because I was “still married.” Let’s rephrase this to get to the core of what they were saying: despite the fact that I had been separated from my husband for months and unhappy in my marriage for years, my commitment to my husband had to take precedence over me pursuing an independent life on my own terms (which is the point of separation) until such time as we could come to an agreement about how to split our possessions and legal bills.
Just started to date a girl who got out of a longterm relationship 8 months ago.
And I was upfront about that — I told all my new suitors that I was coming out of a long relationship and was just enjoying myself.
If I was dating several people at once, I told all of them that that was the case.
These people don't really seem to be much fun and I don't need their drama. I went through the same thing a year ago and never will get involved with somone fresh out of a long term relationship again.
You're doing the right thing by letting this one go.I did the the whole " date and let's see what happens" thing and it was a mistake. Most people suggest a year to regroup and get over the grief of a long term relationship ending. If you play your cards right you maybe adding up your equations and getting exactly the figure you want.