Dating a man with abandonment issues
He might start to notice that you are texting or calling him less and realize that he has gotten too secure. My husband does not pay attention to me and always listens to his mother.
In essence, this ultimatum is "Either you put more effort into this relationship or I go." This does not have to be an abrupt conversation.See more questions like this: 3 years in and something feels wrong. We haven't been dating long (my version of long is like a year) and he's starting to act differently from the beginning of our relationship.