Dating an abstinent
I'm kind of stuck in the city area, and I think that has a large impact on it.But I'm not entirely convinced that it's much better away from the cities.Yes I like to have crazy monkey sex once in a while, but I care about the person I'm involved with, I care about the people they'll be with in the future, about possible children, about possible careless mistakes that could ruin someones life... OP, I congratulate you on your efforts, its not something that is seen very often, and even the thought of not sleeping with someone after the first week or so, well, its impressive...my input.Simply stating a comment in contrast to an earlier poster, not all "abstinent daters" are religious nuts...Personally, I'd hate to get married without knowing whether I was sexually compatible with my mate. If you're not willing to give ground on this, you'll just have to find a woman who feels the same or cares enough about you to work around this obstacle. Sex is a make or break for many people, but I'm sorry even in a relationship with the most inveterate partners, sex will make up less than 5% of the actual relationship. I'm much more concerned about the other 95% of the time I'll be spending with my partner. But it does signify a care for the car after it is mine.If anything, sleeping habits should be a make of break. Yeah, religion seems to be the only place that it shows up. Yes abstinent dating still exists and it does not only done by religious nut jobs. Driving the car is liken' to a relationship; having a nice dinner, spending the weekend together on a trip, or just sitting and watching TV.
Holy crap, I abstained from sex in relationships when I was in my teens, but now that I'm in my thirties, I want it to be a part of the relationship after I know the man and am ready for it. its people like you that make the rest of us afraid to try and sleep with people on the first datesmy 13 year old sister just took a vow of abstinence until she's on her own and ready (physically, emotionally, mentally, financially), her reason: her best friend got pregnant, and the father doesn't want any part of it.there are truely conciderate and respectful people out there who aren't out for an easy peice of tail.