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A peculiar energy permeates a town when so many people are trying to advance an ego-based agenda – – which may not be the most conducive energy for building meaningful, lasting relationships. I’ve already written another article about dating actors, so I’ll make this brief: dating people with uncertain finances, erratic schedules and fragile egos is a challenge requiring saintlier patience than most people possess. Nightlife shuts down at 1am and you have to drive your own butt home afterwards.
Last call being 2am in Los Angeles, most establishments start kicking you out at 1am.
Lack of public transport also means that people stay sober enough to drive back home.
As a result, the social lubricant effects of alcohol don't operate in the same way as in a city with public transport.
A lot of people come to LA to make it in the entertainment industry, which is a fleeting, fickle creature.
Is it too farfetched to see that fickleness permeating all the way down to the participants in that industry and their social bonds? Dating people in the entertainment industry is fraught with unique challenges.
For the first two years, I just assumed I had suddenly gotten ugly and stupid.
Then I heard multitudes of other people voicing similar experiences.
However, the quality of my love life was worse than it had been in any other city.
That casual contact is missing in LA, because we spend a lot of time in our wheeled steel cages.